Nowadays society is so messed up. They will have us thinking women are supposed to be chasing men or waiting for them to grow. No this is all wrong. You won’t have to chase what God sent. When God first created Adam he was alone. Adam was already complete, whole, had a job, etc. God created Eve as a gift for Adam. “ The LORD God said, “It is not good for the man to live alone. I will make a suitable companion to help him.” (Genesis 2:18) Ladies, realize that men need us but we don’t need them. God created us to be whole and complete on our own, not broken and giving pieces of us away to people that don’t value it. One of the hardest lessons I had to learn was that no matter how hard you love someone, you can’t change them. If they don’t value themselves enough to change to become the man God sees them as, then how can they love you. If you have to show a grown boy how to treat you, sis let him go. Pick your crown back up. There are plenty of MAN out in this world and your Adam is out there. Don’t fall for a grown boy that says all the right things, fall for a man that shows you all the right things. These boys are so dusty because God pulled Adam out of the dust when He created Him. But before you can identify your Adam from the rest you have to identify yourself. Love God, learn yourself, love yourself, become the best you and as you’re minding your business your Adam will come. Trust me you’ll know who this man is because he will be the exact opposite of who you were created to be.