“It is dangerous to be concerned with what others think of you, but if you trust the Lord, you are safe.” (Proverbs 29:25 GNT) Imagine if people’s opinion paid your bills? Then you would have the right to be concerned with what others say. But since nobody but God pays your bills, the only opinion you should be worrying about is God’s. Yes you have a “job” but that is just the provider God chose to bless you from because He is always the source. Our money and blessings never change just the way God distributes them to you. You need to understand the people that always have something negative or bad to say about you are just haters. These people are jealous of you because they see the anointing God has placed in your life. They are mad at you without realizing they can have their own anointing if they seek Jesus. People will always hate but they do not know what you had to go through to get everything you have.
Don’t let leeches get close to you because they are not really happy for you. Some just want to suck the life out of you or steal your birth rights. They don’t really care about you, they just want to get information on your weaknesses. These people are easily used by the devil to try to stop what God has for you. Watch those people that smile in your face and act like they are for you but in reality are full of hatred and jealousy in their heart for you. You can tell if someone is for you or against you simply by the God they worship. If they fear the Lord they are good people but those that do not fear the Lord will turn around and stab you in the back. Also, stay away from people that do not understand your purpose. They are not for you because they do not know the real you. Some people are only there for you when they see that God is about to do something big for you. Find people that know the real you and understand the anointing placed on your life and won’t get jealous or intimidated by it.
Lately I’ve had people around me that make my spirit uneasy. These people are family members of mine. I have been watching what they do and how they act. I know they are using me for their benefits and they think I don’t know. Luckily for me God has already warned me and bad for them because they don’t know they are about to be cut off. I’ve noticed the jealousy and I know they talk bad about me amongst each other. Sometimes I’m too nice and I’m going to set my boundaries. They have been giving me things but I know it is for their own purpose, I didn’t ask for these things. Unfortunately I have to deal with these people for one more week but I know the Lord will give me strength and a strategy to deal with them. I’m honestly not surprised that the ones closest to me are the ones waiting on my downfall. I’m emerging into the person God knows I can be and I’m leaving everything behind. I found love and peace in God and all I need is Him, Jesus,the Holy Spirit and my Son.
I’ve made it this far without anybody’s help but the Lords. Those that think they are hurting me by not helping or supporting me are only hurting themselves. When God does what He needs to do in my life and I become that person, some are going to wish they have treated me differently. Those closest to me just want to copy me and you might say “you should be flattered”.. well I’m not because God gave everyone their special gift and copying me is not going to help you become who God needs you to be. Being jealous or hating on me is not going to open up doors of blessings for you. What my enemies don’t know is that what they mean for evil God uses for my good. “You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies; You anoint my head with oil; My cup runs over.” (Psalms 23:5 NKJV) I’m not worried about opinions or those that are against me. I’m going to love those that are for me and want to see me genuinely win. These are the people meant for me.