There’s people in this world that feed off seeing you unhappy. Trust me I learned this because after dealing with a narcissist for three years everything I knew about this dude was a lie. The father of my son is a narcissist. A narcissist is a person with an excessive need for admiration, disregard for others’ feelings, an inability to handle any criticism, and a sense of entitlement. Believe it or not there’s a lot of jealous, miserable and hateful people in this world that are willing to do anything to see you down. I should know because after I decided to leave my narcissist ex alone his flying monkeys which are his family and friends tried to sabotage my reputation through social media. Flying monkeys are the narcissist enablers that try to get to you since the narcissist no longer can. You know why there are people like this? Because people like this are insecure with themselves and have no self love. The major reason is they don’t have
God with them and if they do they do not have a personal relationship with Him. God is love so anybody that tells you otherwise is a liar. There’s people that claim to believe in God but deceive you with their actions. From my experience with the father of my son he made me believe He knew about God and was a good guy until I started catching on to his true colors. This is when he started reversing back to his old self and everything I knew about him was just a lie. Always remember demons attend church too. The devil can also send you something that looks like everything you’ve ever wanted. So when you encounter toxic people do not even bother entertaining them because they want to see you argue with them. They feed off your energy and you arguing with them gives them a sense of entitlement over you. Remember if you don’t like something just take away it’s only power which is your attention.

It is interesting that Timothy in the bible says to avoid such people. Though avoidance is destructive in itself. How is avoidance showing compassion or love? I don’t understand the paradox here.
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There is only so much compassion you can show to people that only seek to hurt you. If they are detrimental to your health, you’re supposed to put yourself and your mental first and avoid them.
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