Before you fall for someone ask yourself is it love or is it lust? Don’t go after a person just because they look good. Get to know them real good so you don’t end up with someone that only serves looks. Don’t worry there are also people that don’t look as good and will also break your heart. Moral of the story is just love yourself because you already look good and know what you need, so what’s the issue? I say sit at your own table alone Lust is having a very sexual desire for someone. Love is unconditional affection with no limits or conditions. You’ll know it’s lust when it’s based on sex and once y’all stop having sex, it’s like the love is gone. But in fact it was never a soulmate, just a soul tie. A soul tie is based on sex and will have you thinking it’s love when it’s not. This is why I love my God, He loves people unconditionally and with no limits.
Love yourself before loving anybody else. Self love is the best love because if you don’t know your worth nobody else will. Heal so that you can be whole. You have to watch out who you give yourself to, not everyone deserves to get to know you. Some people only want you for as long as they can benefit from you. Soon as it’s not beneficial, they switch up. Trust someone who matches their words with their actions. Please don’t ignore the red flags because 9/10 that person has no intentions in growing. Be so in tune with God that you can walk away from anything ungodly. Know yourself so you don’t go looking for love in the wrong places. “And so we know and rely on the love God has for us. God is love. Whoever lives in love lives in God, and God in them.” (1 John 4:16)